The best sex positions for Tops, Bottoms, Vers or 'sides'
Published : 2023-10-13 14:28:34 | By KARDO Editorial Team • 6 min read Categories :
Top, bottom, vers and 'side' are sexual terms belonging only to the gay community. Although the terms Top and Bottom have been around for some time, the meaning has evolved. Previously, gay men used the words Top and Bottom to describe sexual position and authority. Now the meaning has a little more personality. These days, a top is a person who loves to be in control and loves to penetrate.
Already a bottom is someone who loves to be penetrated. This does not mean that a bottom cannot penetrate his partner, but he prefers to be penetrated. While the vers is the one who likes both positions. Sides are unique. Sides have only recently been recognized as part of the gay family. These men enjoy all other aspects of sex such as oral, touching and licking except the penetration part. Sides don't like anal sex. This has been a problem for most gay men. Most Sides feel insecure because of how gay society perceives them.
After a detailed understanding of the meaning of Top and Bottom and these other sexual terms, one should know how to enjoy these sexual positions. Below are sexual tips and styles to help you discover and make the most of your sexual preference.
How to get the most out of sex when you're Top
First you need to know that there is no perfect way to be a top. So you have to help the bottom relax and take a deep breath. You also need to talk to your partner. Find out what he likes and dislikes. During sex, it's vital to check in with your partner that everything is going well.
Make sure he is not in pain as penetration can be painful. And if he asks you to stop, please stop immediately. Just because you're the top one doesn't mean you have to become a scholar.
Positions to try as top
If you want to have the time of your life, then you should try these sex positions:
Doggy-style: After all, there's nothing better than the visual stimulation of seeing your partner's penis slide in and out. This position facilitates penetration. All you need lube. Get your partner on all fours, stand behind him and line up your penis with his anus.
Standing: This is for you if you like hardcore sex. This position works well if the liability is slightly lower than the asset. Once you're both comfortable, you can slide into him slowly, giving him plenty of time to adjust. Then you can hold him by the waist and enjoy sex.
Legs in the air: You should try this pose if you want to go deep. It involves holding your partner's legs back or draping them over your shoulders as you penetrate him. Sex is even more enjoyable if your partner is flexible.
How to Get More Out of Sex When You're Bottom
Relaxing is vital because penetration can be painful at first, especially if you've never been a bottom. Take a deep breath and relax the muscles around your anus. It's okay to explore too. You can try to masturbate with your partner.
Sex toys are also a good idea. You can use anal plugs before penetration. It helps to stay ready and open. Penetration is much easier with the use of lubricant. Have a lubricant ready. And although everyone is different, we recommend understanding the concept of a ducha/chuca.
Positions to try as Bottom
Being penetrated is also wonderful but it can be even more so if you take advantage of the possibilities with the sexual positions mentioned below:
Missionary: Looking into your partner's eyes as his penis slides in and out of you can give you a quick orgasm. You can even masturbate while he's penetrating you.
Spooning: This is a hopelessly romantic position. The feeling of your partner's warm breath blowing on your neck while having sex is unparalleled. This position involves lying on your side with your partner lying behind you. You can lift one leg to give your top 'better access'.
Cowboy: This style of sex is perfect for bottoms. You can control the depth of penetration. Have your partner sit on a chair or lie on their back. You can hold on to his shoulders, chest or belly for support as you ride.
How to get the most out of sex when you're vers
Well, the idea is to get the best of both worlds. There are countless sex positions for couples to enjoy. Since the vers ones can switch roles during sex. First of all, you need to understand your energy as bottom and as top. This helps you to please your partner better.
Positions to try as vers
The joy of being vers is that you can enjoy any position, from cowboy to puppy or sidelines. As long as it's a sexual style, you can have fun... So why not make the most of your freedom and try out these sexual positions to see which one you like best?
How to get the most out of sex when you're a Side
Now this is one of the most controversial members. Enjoying sex as a Side can be tricky, especially when there's so much judgment associated with it. That's why the first step to having fun is communication.
Positions to try as Side
69: Who doesn't love this position? Tops, bottoms and vers like this position. The feeling of your partner and you having oral sex simultaneously is out of this world. Taking advantage of this position depends heavily on getting into a perfect 69 position. This can be very tricky and there are several ways to do this.
If you regularly go to the gym, you can choose the athletic position. This involves having your partner lie on their back face up while you lie on top of them in a push-up position. Make sure your penis is in line with his mouth.
This position is if you share the same height as your partner. The two must lie side by side. Both with their heads in opposite directions of the bed or the place where they are, this way, they can do the oral as much as they want. One good thing about this position is that it doesn't involve a lot of physical exertion.
Different heights? Don't worry, the taller ones should curve their body into a V shape. This will help them fit in the right place so that both of you can have easy access to the penis.
Top, bottom, vers and 'side' are sexual terms belonging only to the gay community. Although the terms Top and Bottom have been around for some time, the meaning has evolved. Previously, gay men used the words Top and Bottom to describe sexual position and authority. Now the meaning has a little more personality. These days, a top is a person who loves to be in control and loves to penetrate.
Already a bottom is someone who loves to be penetrated. This does not mean that a bottom cannot penetrate his partner, but he prefers to be penetrated. While the vers is the one who likes both positions. Sides are unique. Sides have only recently been recognized as part of the gay family. These men enjoy all other aspects of sex such as oral, touching and licking except the penetration part. Sides don't like anal sex. This has been a problem for most gay men. Most Sides feel insecure because of how gay society perceives them.
After a detailed understanding of the meaning of Top and Bottom and these other sexual terms, one should know how to enjoy these sexual positions. Below are sexual tips and styles to help you discover and make the most of your sexual preference.
How to get the most out of sex when you're Top
First you need to know that there is no perfect way to be a top. So you have to help the bottom relax and take a deep breath. You also need to talk to your partner. Find out what he likes and dislikes. During sex, it's vital to check in with your partner that everything is going well.
Make sure he is not in pain as penetration can be painful. And if he asks you to stop, please stop immediately. Just because you're the top one doesn't mean you have to become a scholar.
Positions to try as top
If you want to have the time of your life, then you should try these sex positions:
Doggy-style: After all, there's nothing better than the visual stimulation of seeing your partner's penis slide in and out. This position facilitates penetration. All you need lube. Get your partner on all fours, stand behind him and line up your penis with his anus.
Standing: This is for you if you like hardcore sex. This position works well if the liability is slightly lower than the asset. Once you're both comfortable, you can slide into him slowly, giving him plenty of time to adjust. Then you can hold him by the waist and enjoy sex.
Legs in the air: You should try this pose if you want to go deep. It involves holding your partner's legs back or draping them over your shoulders as you penetrate him. Sex is even more enjoyable if your partner is flexible.
How to Get More Out of Sex When You're Bottom
Relaxing is vital because penetration can be painful at first, especially if you've never been a bottom. Take a deep breath and relax the muscles around your anus. It's okay to explore too. You can try to masturbate with your partner.
Sex toys are also a good idea. You can use anal plugs before penetration. It helps to stay ready and open. Penetration is much easier with the use of lubricant. Have a lubricant ready. And although everyone is different, we recommend understanding the concept of a ducha/chuca.
Positions to try as Bottom
Being penetrated is also wonderful but it can be even more so if you take advantage of the possibilities with the sexual positions mentioned below:
Missionary: Looking into your partner's eyes as his penis slides in and out of you can give you a quick orgasm. You can even masturbate while he's penetrating you.
Spooning: This is a hopelessly romantic position. The feeling of your partner's warm breath blowing on your neck while having sex is unparalleled. This position involves lying on your side with your partner lying behind you. You can lift one leg to give your top 'better access'.
Cowboy: This style of sex is perfect for bottoms. You can control the depth of penetration. Have your partner sit on a chair or lie on their back. You can hold on to his shoulders, chest or belly for support as you ride.
How to get the most out of sex when you're vers
Well, the idea is to get the best of both worlds. There are countless sex positions for couples to enjoy. Since the vers ones can switch roles during sex. First of all, you need to understand your energy as bottom and as top. This helps you to please your partner better.
Positions to try as vers
The joy of being vers is that you can enjoy any position, from cowboy to puppy or sidelines. As long as it's a sexual style, you can have fun... So why not make the most of your freedom and try out these sexual positions to see which one you like best?
How to get the most out of sex when you're a Side
Now this is one of the most controversial members. Enjoying sex as a Side can be tricky, especially when there's so much judgment associated with it. That's why the first step to having fun is communication.
Positions to try as Side
69: Who doesn't love this position? Tops, bottoms and vers like this position. The feeling of your partner and you having oral sex simultaneously is out of this world. Taking advantage of this position depends heavily on getting into a perfect 69 position. This can be very tricky and there are several ways to do this.
If you regularly go to the gym, you can choose the athletic position. This involves having your partner lie on their back face up while you lie on top of them in a push-up position. Make sure your penis is in line with his mouth.
This position is if you share the same height as your partner. The two must lie side by side. Both with their heads in opposite directions of the bed or the place where they are, this way, they can do the oral as much as they want. One good thing about this position is that it doesn't involve a lot of physical exertion.
Different heights? Don't worry, the taller ones should curve their body into a V shape. This will help them fit in the right place so that both of you can have easy access to the penis.